so far after reading this(topic) i have came across this
in the groups view
echo CHtml::ajaxLink(Yii::t('Groups','Join Group'),
     $this->createUrl('groupmembers/create'),
     array(
     'type'=>'POST',
        'beforeSend'=>'function(){
             $("#joinGroup").addClass("loading");}',
        'complete' => 'function(){
            $("#joinGroup").removeClass("loading");}',
        'success'=>"function(data)
                  {
                    // handle return data
                   // alert( 'welcome' );
                    alert( data ); // it does alert the data
                    $('#joinGroup').replaceWith(data); // if i comment this no data is show even if i m using 'update'=>'#joinGroup'
                    
                  }",
        'data'=>array('groupID'=>$model->id,'userID'=>$currentUser,'ajax'=>'ajax'),
        'update'=>'#joinGroup' // joinGroup is a div in the view
        ),
     array('id'=>'joingroup'));
in the groupmembers controller
 public function actionCreate()
	{
	       $groupID = $_POST['groupID'];
           $userID = $_POST['userID'];
           
           $model=new Groupmembers;
           $model->group_id = $groupID;
           $model->user_id = $userID;
           
       	// Uncomment the following line if AJAX validation is needed
		 $this->performAjaxValidation($model);
         // Flag to know if we will render the form or try to add 
        // new member.
           $flag=true;
         if(isset($_POST['Groupmembers']))
    		{
    		  $flag=false;
              $model->attributes=$_POST['Groupmembers'];
              
              if($model->save()){
                    echo "welcome data is saved";
    			}else{
    			 echo "model not saved";
    			}
              
    		}
            if($flag){
                   $this->renderPartial('_formDialog',array(
    		      	'model'=>$model
    	           	),false, true);
            }
	}
and this the view (_formDialog) which is called in this view function
<?php $this->beginWidget('zii.widgets.jui.CJuiDialog', array(
	'id'=>'mydialog',
	// additional javascript options for the dialog plugin
	'options'=>array(
		'title'=>'Join This Group',
		'autoOpen'=>true,
		'modal'=>true,
        
	),
));
?>
<h1>Join Group</h1>
<!-- echo 'dialog content here';-->
<div class="form">
<?php $form=$this->beginWidget('CActiveForm', array(
	'id'=>'groupmembers-form',
	'enableAjaxValidation'=>false,
)); ?>
	<p class="note">Fields with <span class="required">*</span> are required.</p>
	<?php echo $form->errorSummary($model); ?>
	<div class="row">
		<?php echo $form->labelEx($model,'group_id'); ?>
		<?php echo $form->textField($model,'group_id'); ?>
		<?php echo $form->error($model,'group_id'); ?>
	</div>
	<div class="row">
		<?php echo $form->labelEx($model,'user_id'); ?>
		<?php echo $form->textField($model,'user_id'); ?>
		<?php echo $form->error($model,'user_id'); ?>
	</div>
      <?php if(CCaptcha::checkRequirements()): ?>
	<div class="row">
		<?php echo $form->labelEx($model,'verifyCode'); ?>
		<div>
		<?php $this->widget('CCaptcha'); ?>
		<?php echo $form->textField($model,'verifyCode'); ?>
		</div>
		<div class="hint">Please enter the letters as they are shown in the image above.
		<br/>Letters are not case-sensitive.</div>
		<?php echo $form->error($model,'verifyCode'); ?>
	</div>
	<?php endif; ?>
    <div class="row">
	
		<?php 
        
        echo CHtml::ajaxSubmitButton(Yii::t('Groups','Join Group'),
        CHtml::normalizeUrl(array('groupmembers/create','render'=>false)),
        array('success'=>'function(data) {
                       
                        alert(data);
                        
                    }'),
        array('id'=>'saveitem')); 
        
      
        
        echo CHtml::normalizeUrl(array('groupmembers/create'));
         ?>
	</div>
<?php $this->endWidget(); ?>
</div><!-- form -->
<?php 
$this->endWidget('zii.widgets.jui.CJuiDialog');
// the link that may open the dialog
echo CHtml::link('Join Group Now', '#', array(
	'onclick'=>'$("#mydialog").dialog("open"); return false;',
));
?>
now the main issues are:
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[*]when i click on the join button it properly loads the dialog rendered from the controller but when i click on the submit button nothing happens
[*]as i have used the captcha too i no captcha or wrong captcha is entered or even no value is entered in any field the form is not validated and no errors are shown
[*]even if i input the right values in the form it is still not submitted, nothing happens
[/list]
can anyone plz tell me where i might be createing wrong logic or how to do it properly ?